all’s pheromone in love and dating - whiteboard and projection screen combined

Last Thursday night, I was very self-conscious when I walked into a party
Be conscious in a way I 've never had before: what if no one likes my smell?
It's summer in Washington. C.
So no one smells so sweet.
But this evening is different from the body you usually sweat.
I was about to go to a sex hormone party where strangers would pass T-
The shirt I always wear
The strange experiment is very interesting.
Today, singles get together in all sorts of strange ways.
Maybe sample each other's DNA the way you might drink wine.
Tasting makes more sense than browsing photos on the dating app.
"It's a good experience not to visually judge someone --
Smell someone before you see them, "says Amy Morse, who organized a sex-information party with the new D. ParkerC.
The art organization she worksfounded.
The filomon party was held in New York, London and Los Angeles and I always wanted to attend.
As soon as I signed up, I received instructions: I'm going to sleep in the same clean, white T-
To capture my filomeng, I wore a shirt for four nights.
Then I will take my shirt to the party and seal it with a zippertop bag.
Felomeng is a chemical secreted by mammals from our cheeks, hands, neck, scalp, armpits and other more intimate parts.
Scientists smell someone's sweat, sweaty's back, T-shirt (
And the filomeng included in it)
We might be able to detect a good genetic match.
However, the science of information
Attraction is far from certain.
In addition, hormone control can disrupt the smell of women and the ability to sniff out their partners.
I was late for the experiment, so I wore a shirt for two nights, plus the day before the party --
That means I contaminated my "scent print" and as it says, there's some deodorant, office smell and anything embedded in the bus seat. (
I learned later that most people have deviated from instructions in different ways.
We're human, not experimental rats. )
After going in, I took out a number from the basket (No. 1! )
Put my zipper on
Accordingly, put it and other shirts on the table.
An organizer of the event took a picture of my Polaroid and I put it on the wall next to a post
It noticed where I would mark the number of shirts I felt pleasant.
The smell in the room was overwhelming, leaving filomeng aside.
One of the parties was a kombucha winemaker who was tasting samples of maca
Mini cocoa mixturemason jars. (
He told me that both ingredients are spring medicine. )
There is also a large group of people waiting in line to buy her gin, with Icelandic black lava salt on the edge of the wine glass dotted with a rat plum, before putting it on your drink, she will pat it loudly to release its oil.
Oh, give her the wrist of the hand you drink so that she can use a cotton swab with a row of lavender oil to reduce nerve tension and enhance blood circulation.
If you stay in Washington long enough, any gathering of young professionals can be like walking into a nearby bar.
I met a few people I knew, but I didn't smell at close range: a boyfriend I knew when I was a teenager;
First date a few years ago
A friend's ex-boyfriend took off his shirt and wandered around.
He said he spilled salsa on it. ;
There was also a guy who recognized me from the week before I was drinking alone after my first date.
"I don't have T-
Shirt, "the last man said before reading his poem to a crowd in his 20 s --to 40-
But you can smell me.
"Yes, we also encourage people attending the party to breathe in filomeng directly from the source.
A projection screen is lowered, and Sadaf Lotfalian, a clinical psychologist in training, gave a lecture on the science of filomeng and instructed us to be looking for someone and behind their ears
Lotfalian told us that she used to break up with someone because she didn't like his smell.
Later, she told me that the man "looked perfect on paper" and emotionally, they were "deeply connected ".
But that taste. . .
This is not a health issue.
"He was very popular among the ladies, so I felt a little isolated about my exclusion," she recalls . ".
When she was sampling
Most shirts are neutral to her, she said.
The scent she was attracted to stirred up the feeling of comfort and familiarity, while some others "felt a little distant or unsafe ".
Lotfalian did meet a man who sucked in his aroma directly.
"Our connection is immediate, not just based on smell," she said.
Finally, they had an in-depth conversation about why Lotfalian sometimes evaded Love and her fear of love.
They have met three times since the party.
When I look at myself from T-shirts —
Cotton and cigarettes; chocolate; BO; lavender; summer camp; Doritos —
I realized that I paid more attention to the taste of the shirt than how the scent made me feel.
Another party person wrote that his favorite thing smells like "pottery class" at the club "!
And "happy ranchers.
Nevertheless, these scents are often difficult to identify and express except for the body's scents.
I realize that whatever we see or hear, the smell we smell tends to take a step back, and this party is a little sensory overload.
Tuning to all your senses at the same time is exhausting.
And awakening.
The day after the party, Morse said to me that the smell felt "so heartfelt and subconscious ".
Smell someone
Through their ears or faces
When she approaches a new romantic partner, the first thing she does is.
Speaking about the filomon party, she said it was "a different view of mating ".
She is in the bar trying to find a new way to meet people.
"The way we choose our partner now is casual.
Choose a person according to whether he is successful or tall?
This seems ridiculous.
Why is it more ridiculous based on their smell?
Instead of looking for people I like.
Some of them were pleasant but none of them made me very intoxicated)
, What I am more interested in is to find the person who wrote down my number.
I found one, patted him on the shoulder and announced that I didn't. 1. “No. 1? I love No. 1! ” he replied.
He said there was only one shirt for him to think about except my shirt: Yes, this one. This scent.
Smelling a stranger's shirt reminds him of the next morning, and after spending a night together, he and his loved one curl up in bed once any artificial smell disappears.
"These shirts remind me of this --
"The original feeling of a person," he said . ".
It's a pity that he's already had someone to share those intimate moments with me: my most passionate scent --
Man, there's a girlfriend.
Does he like the taste of her? , I asked.
"It's not true," he replied . ".
"Yesterday she had too much perfume on her body and when she got on the bus I sneezed.
"I was wondering if he would let him advise her to exercise more often that night.