People did not talk much about sex in the 1980 s.
At least not public. So when a pint-
The former Israeli sniper with a strong German accent began to say things like "premature ejaculation" and entered "from the back" on the local radio station --
Later, TV
People listen (closely). Dr.
Ruth banned the word "cold" on her show.
She learned from Conan O'Brien why "Blue Ball" is gender-discriminatory --
This is a phrase without female equivalents --
They are also advised to create a companion term for women: "blue lips.
"It has never been popular," she said this week . ".
It's almost 91 now, doctor.
Ruth wesheimer is the subject of a new documentary.
Ruth, record her journey from Germany.
Jewish refugees in the Holocaust
People who study English by themselves in romance novels-
The celebrity therapist we know todayAnd today’s Dr.
Ruth is very, very busy.
She is a member of the board of directors of the Jewish Heritage Museum (
Her promotion to donors is: "You have enjoyed good sex for the rest of your life ")
Active on Twitter, teach two university courses and attend opera and concerts.
She has published more than 40 books.
Including two new, one graphic novel.
A style autobiography called "Grandma roller coaster" and a crocodile, you are so beautiful!
Differences in acceptance. “Ask Dr.
Ruth is now in theaters and will be in Hulu on June.
One recent morning, she spent 50 years at her home in Washington Heights.
Ruth was wearing her iconic Merrell sneakers, two phone lines, a ringing fax machine and a disorganized question from reporters.
She won't answer the phone before 10. m.
These are edit excerpts from the conversation.
What changes have taken place in the decades you gave sex advice?
I get less questions about women's sexual satisfaction.
Women already know that they are responsible for their climax.
I got less questions from men about premature ejaculation.
Maybe these days more questions about desire come from people who say they don't want to have sex and don't want to have time.
Especially millennials say they don't have time to have sex.
What do millennials say?
Some millennials, a woman, recently said to me, "How do we make love?
We work hard.
"It's not right for me.
For example, in the past days, immigrants working in the needle industry and in the clothing industry have worked harder.
They're still fucking.
Or we're gone.
What did you say to her?
I said, "Hurry up.
Did you say "put your phone down?
This is another thing!
These days, I am very worried that the art of conversation will be lost.
We walked into a restaurant and you could even see the family sitting on the phone.
I'm not talking about phones that are not used.
If there is an emergency, you will get in touch soon.
But we must realize that the art of conversation is lost.
How does this affect people's sex life?
You can't have a couple not talk for 24 hours and then expect good sex.
It does not work.
Part of a good relationship is good conversation.
"How are you doing today?
"Do you have any questions ? "
"Have you called your mother? in-law?
"Does online dating help or hurt a conversation?
There is a term when a person disappears.
What is the term? Ghosting? Right.
I'm looking for the term ghosting. (
She wrote it down. )
Terrible.
I'm not a record jockey, so I didn't use any songs when I was on the radio.
I did use a song, though.
A woman called to say that she was dating a man who had been in love for three years.
But she never saw him on weekends.
I said, "Does he go to work on weekends? She said, "No.
I said, "Does he take care of his elderly parents on weekends? She said, "No.
I said, "Is he married ? "
She said, "Yes.
So I made a gesture to the engineer and I said, play the song, "wash that guy off your hair and send him on the road.
"I told her to call me back in three weeks. Did she? She did.
She did send him on the road. Ha!
Listen to me.
Do you think people know more about sex because of the Internet?
There is no doubt that they know more.
But it's not always right.
What other myths need to be debunked?
The most common myth, I think, is scale.
Size is not important.
Unless it's small. Then what?
This is a different story.
I need to talk to a urologist.
What do you think of pornography?
It's interesting that you ask this because I'm going to do it the second time [an Oxford-style debate]
I'm going to debate pornography.
What I don't know yet is whether they want me to argue for or against it. I can do both.
To do this, I would say that anything that is helpful to a couple is perfectly OK.
As long as the door is closed, the children will not look.
If I object, I would say that if people think that the erection described in porn is correct, the female orgasm response is correct, and then they have to go to the class with the PhD.
Ruth withermer
Because it's all exaggerated.
I'm sure you read about the reduction in sex life in Americans in the Atlantic.
I don't believe that.
I'm not saying they didn't do a serious investigation.
But I don't want to believe that.
Because in order to consolidate the relationship, you have to have sex in order to keep this spark alive.
You must be interested in another person.
Part of the interest in another person is that, among other things, spring takes a walk with all the beautiful flowers and enjoys good sex.
In this movie, your son talks about leaving college, walking down the hall to his dorm room and hearing his mother's voice streaming out of people's rooms.
What advice do you have for parents who want to talk about sex with their children?
Children must know that they can ask questions without embarrassment.
If one parent is satisfied with the topic, then the person who is satisfied should do so.
I am willing to answer if you have a question, and the other party should take the book home and say, "I am willing to answer if you have a question.
I left a book with my child.
I did not speak.
They heard enough.
What is the secret of your longevity?
I'm lucky, I'm healthy, interested in what I'm doing, and interested in what others are doing.
Part of the reason for making your suggestion so delicious is that it is full of humor.
In the Jewish tradition the Talmud says, "The lesson of humor is the lesson that has been retained.
"I can't tell you jokes, but I can use humor in due course.
Your tweets are interesting.
I talked to Pierre [Lehu]
My Minister of Communications wrote it on paper.
This is the secret.
I'm not a computer-Complete literacy.
All I know is what computers can do.
So I called Pierre and I said, "I was at the party yesterday," and I asked people to take a picture of Pierre.
I put it on Twitter. 96,000-something [followers]—
I think it's 96,700.
Go find it yourself. Yeah. I can look.
Because you're a computer. literate!
What else do you want to say? I have to go.
Because the lady has a lot to do.